Infidelity Counseling in Phoenix, AZ
Therapy for Betrayal, Infidelity, Affairs, Cheating
One of the most painful incidents a relationship can endure is the presence of an affair. Often when an affair is revealed, partners may wonder if the relationship could possibly survive and how they could ever recover. Feelings of anger, betrayal, shame and sadness can often cloud a couple’s ability to see a future for their relationship
Though affairs are painful, our counselors at Biltmore Psychology and Counseling have helped many couples work though the difficult aspects of an affair and have led them to a place where they are more healthy and whole than when they started. Through hard work and commitment to the process, couples can and often do find a more enriching relationship dynamic that what existed prior to the affair.
In our discussions, we will create a safe environment of healing and reassurance to help the relationship return to a place where that is secure for both partners. Communication skills and individual needs will also be addressed to help better understand what precipitated the affair and how to prevent it from happening again in the future. Our counselors will work with the couple to lay down a foundation in which trust can be reestablished, forgiveness can be given and love can flourish.
Helping relationships thrive is at the core of the work we do here at BPC. We are committed to helping you through this situation to a healthier and more fulfilling time in your journey.
Begin your journey with confidence
In a free, no-obligation 10-min consultation we can help you determine whether our services would be the right fit for you.
Our licensed clinicians apply professional expertise and understanding to provide the best holistic counseling services in Phoenix, AZ.
Contact us to schedule a free phone consultation.
Start your journey with confidence
In a free, no-obligation 10-min consultation we can help you determine whether our services would be the right fit for you.
Our licensed clinicians apply professional expertise and understanding to provide the best holistic counseling services in Phoenix, AZ.
Contact us to schedule a free phone consultation.
Infidelity Counseling FAQ
Not necessarily. While infidelity can be deeply painful and betraying, it does not automatically mean that a relationship is over for good. Many couples experience a period of intense distress after discovering cheating, but it is possible to work through the impact and heal a relationship over time. Whether a relationship continues depends on many factors, including each partner’s willingness to take responsibility, communicate honestly, and engage in the healing process.
Rebuilding after cheating takes time, effort, and support. Trust does not return quickly, and healing often involves addressing underlying issues, processing hurt and betrayal, and redefining boundaries and expectations. For some, infidelity may clarify that separation is the healthiest path forward. Therapy can help individuals and couples sort through these complex emotions, gain clarity about their options, and move toward healing from betrayal trauma, whether that means rebuilding the relationship or moving on with care and self-respect.
Affair recovery therapy is more specialized and structured than general couples counseling because it focuses specifically on healing the betrayal trauma, loss of trust, and emotional pain caused by infidelity. While general couples counseling often addresses communication patterns, conflict resolution, and relationship dynamics, affair recovery therapy prioritizes stabilization after an affair. Early work often centers on emotional safety, managing intense reactions such as shock, anger, grief, or shame, and helping couples or individuals navigate the immediate aftermath.
As therapy progresses, infidelity recovery counseling addresses accountability, transparency, and trust repair in ways that general couples counseling may not focus on as directly. The therapist helps the couple understand the impact of the affair, establish clear boundaries, and create space for honest but contained conversations about what happened. Whether the outcome is rebuilding the relationship or separating with respect, affair recovery therapy provides targeted support for one of the most emotionally challenging experiences a couple can face.
No. Infidelity counseling and affair recovery are not just for couples. While couples may choose to attend counseling together to rebuild trust and repair their relationship, individual counseling can be just as valuable. Individuals often seek support on their own to process the emotional impact of an affair, whether or not their partner is involved in therapy.
Affair recovery counseling can also support individuals as they decide what they want moving forward. Therapy can help clarify whether someone wants to work toward rebuilding the relationship, needs time to heal on their own, or is considering separation. Whether counseling is done individually or as a couple, the focus is on emotional healing, understanding what happened, restoring a sense of stability, and helping individuals & couples move forward in a healthy and supported way.
Infidelity therapy and affair recovery counseling can be very helpful. Discovering or being involved in an affair often brings intense emotions such as shock, anger, grief, shame, confusion, and loss of trust. Therapy provides a safe, structured space to process these feelings, make sense of what happened, and begin healing.
For couples, therapy can support honest communication, accountability, and, when both partners are willing, the gradual rebuilding of trust and emotional connection. For individuals, therapy can help with decision-making, boundary setting, and healing from betrayal trauma or guilt. While therapy cannot erase what happened, it can help you move forward with greater clarity, resilience, and stronger emotional well-being.
Meet Our Team
Dr. Melissa Estavillo
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Arizona School of Professional Psychology
M.A. Clinical Psychology,
Arizona School of Professional Psychology
B.S. Psychology,
Grand Canyon University
Dr. Linda DeBiase
Forest Institute of Professional Psychology, Doctorate in Clinical Psychology
Lake Forest College
B.A. Psychology
California School of Professional Psychology,
Clinical Psychology
Dr. Nikki Kemper
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Midwestern University
Masters in Clinical Psychology,
Midwestern University
Nicole Elliott, LPC, PMH-C
M.C. Counseling,
Arizona State University
B.A. English (Literature),
Arizona State University
Elizabeth Felix, LPC
M.A. Professional Counseling, Ottawa University
M.A. Human Resources and Substance Abuse,
Ottawa University
B.A. Psychology,
Ottawa University
Heather Wheeler, LCSW
Masters in Social Work,
Arizona State University
B.A. Psychology,
Arizona State University
Laura Reed, LPC
M.S. Professional Counseling,
Grand Canyon University
B.S. Psychology,
Grand Canyon University
Rebecca Fregoso, LPC
M.S. Counseling,
University of Phoenix
B.A. Psychology,
California State University
Dr. Melissa Estavillo
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology, Arizona School of Professional Psychology M.A. Clinical Psychology, Arizona School of Professional Psychology B.S. Psychology, Grand Canyon University
Dr Linda DeBiase
Forest Institute of Professional Psychology, Doctorate in Clinical Psychology Lake Forest College, B.A. Psychology California School of Professional Psychology, Clinical Psychology
Dr Nikki Kemper
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology, Midwestern University Masters in Clinical Psychology, Midwestern University
Nicole Elliott, LPC
M.C. Counseling, Arizona State University B.A. English (Literature), Arizona State University
Elizabeth Felix, LPC
M.A. Professional Counseling, Ottawa University M.A. Human Resources and Substance Abuse, Ottawa University B.A. Psychology, Ottawa University<
Heather Wheeler, LCSW
Masters in Social Work, Arizona State University B.A. Psychology, Arizona State University
Laura Reed, LPC
M.S. Professional Counseling, Grand Canyon University B.S. Psychology, Grand Canyon University
Rebecca Fregoso, LPC
M.S. Counseling, University of Phoenix, B.A. Psychology, California State University
Our Location in Phoenix, AZ
Address:
6245 N 24th Parkway, Suite #106 Phoenix, Arizona 85016
Phone: (480) 999-7070
Hours: Monday – Friday, 9:00 am – 5:00 pm